There is nothing worse than a woman who disrespects her man publicly and continually belittles and emasculates him in front of others.Every guy knows a friend in that type of relationship and feels sorry for him.Happy marriages are also reported to function best when both partners can enjoy time apart without having to entertain the other.Inevitably, what will happen if your life revolves around another person is that feelings of resentment will build. As her boyfriend, I might as well have been feeding gasoline to the fire drama because I was a source of the crisis as well.attack another person’s character flaws instead of looking inward, thus never having to deal with why they thrive on drama to begin with.This is a defense mechanism they use to avoid the hard work of looking introspectively and discovering that just maybe the reason why they create drama is because they feel they have no purpose or drive; to admit that and give up drama means they have no purpose or importance in this world ).You must walk on eggshells to keep the house from collapsing, so you end up meeting her needs while none of yours get met.This leads to bitterness, so when the cards finally collapse you’re the bad guy.
I don’t do awkward silences well, so I ask the next question that pops into my mind.“So, why’d you stay with her so long in spite of all the crazy?So here are mine (and maybe yours) to help you identify some of the dating landmines you might be ignoring.In JRR Tolkien’s epic trilogy, we’re introduced to a character named Smeagol.It didn’t just extend to women, but many young men as well.The problem wasn’t that the world was out to get them.Shame will creep into the relationship because both people feel their needs aren’t being met, and eventually a co-dependent relationship will blossom in which each person’s happiness is centered solely on whether the other person appears happy. Doom might just be the option you need to dissolve this relationship. Over time I recognized something about people who’s lives seem full of drama.