But the people we recommend will be more attractive. You’ll be shown to more attractive people in their match results. Ok Cupid is segregating the groups, which seems counter-productive to, you know, DATING. The policy reinforces the notion that hot people deserve love and happiness and “ugly” people should just get used to being alone.For evidence of this, just check out some of the offensive language in that email!Lavalife won't even let you TALK to someone who's the same sex as you, and sites like eharmony actively discriminate against gays and lesbians.Not to mention a lot of the other sites don't make much room for people who are bi.
Not to mention the fact that it just doesn’t make sense.
It's kind of fun but a little scary too, even though i'm only in it for pen-pals.
i got a couple of pretty hostile sounding comments.
It’s patronizing to think that Ok Cupid would decide who’s hot and who’s not, especially when hotness is completely subjective. The policy is kept secret (unless you’re attractive! When you sign up for an Ok Cupid account, you are not tipped off to this segregating policy in any way, shape, or form.
Here is what they DO tell people about their matching process: Ok Cupid is the fastest growing FREE online dating site.
It means they're having trouble attracting someone in the real world.